Abasiophilia

The fetish of disability, ultimately, can be broken into two categories; the dominant and the submissive. This can be in multiple positions as well, with either party fitting into either role, and can go further still with those who desire becoming disabled.

That may sound unusual.

Let's go through the classic psych, then my theories.

Some of the more classic beliefs as far as what could have sparked this desire within a person are as follows.

• Imprinting. This is actually pretty interesting, and is a concept spread over much of psychology. It's believed that things we see and feel when we are young imprint on our minds, and can cause various changes in the mind and lifestyle of the future us. So the sight of someone in a wheelchair early in our lives can spark a feeling of wanting to be with someone who is bound by the same restrictions, or vice versa, where a hospital visit could spark a desire to become disabled themselves. 
• An inferiority complex. People who had been made to feel inferior in childhood could actually fork into the same two paths. 
• Attention seeking. People who are disabled tend to garner more sympathy, and get more attention and help in life. Young people who see or interact with various disabled people could feel that it's easier to get attention, and it becomes part of how they view attraction.

There are others, but I want to talk about my theories a bit. Because that's really why I made this blog in the first place, after all.

It's hard to argue about the points brought up above. It makes perfect sense, and it can explain the behavior in both devotees, those who wish to be with disabled folks, as well as people who would rather be disabled. But, my theories actually call into question other fetishes as they would almost certainly play a part in the fun.

Sexology seems to consider each individual 'paraphilia', and seems unwilling to consider that they could be borne of various other outlying causes.

An example. A submissive boy loves being tied up. Adores it. It makes him feel completely alive. So...wouldn't losing the use of a limb, or your mobility, or anything else, pretty much accomplish the same thing, on a deeper scale? Or a dominant woman, who loves having her sub serve her, but doesn't feel like the consistent acts of carefully constructing rope bondage patterns are an effective use of her time? For either of these, the main implication is restriction, restraint, or loss of mobility. There isn't a lot of difference when you break them down into their most basic parts, really.

So what do these three images have in common? None of them are really difficult to move, though they would have a more difficult time moving without the help of another person. They are dependent on someone else, at least for ease of motion, if not for more depending on their own abilities, (save for the second. She is fully dependent.), and it can still become a submissive/dominant duology.

And with that, I think it's enough of my jibber jabber. We'll probably end up coming back to this, but I think tomorrow I want to look more into a deeper theory I have of inter-connectivity between fetishes and desires, and their conceptual origins.

Thank you for reading. If you liked it, please visit my patreon, where I'll be working on an actual game utilizing all the information I'm providing here. It'll be fun, sexy, and a great way to test out the waters on your own.

Fetishes Explained

Fetishes Explained

I came back to this today thinking about yesterday's topic, and feeling like there was something I was leaving out here. This blog can, and very well might, make you feel a bit uncomfortable. To be honest, with some of my theories, I'm a little uncomfortable coming to you with much more candor than a clinical scientist. But I'm not, and I don't want to come across as a stuffy woman who is imagined in a stuffy pantsuit trying to tell you why you like things and make you uncomfortable with a lot of the why as far as how that works.

I swear to god, I'm not that woman. 

I want to discuss these as I normally would, but I need to explain a few things, I think, before I do so, for my own sake. This will be what I point to when I get a lot of questions about who I am, what this is about, and how I can like with myself understanding how some of these are sexy. 

So, to start. I'm not going to tell you my real name, but you can call me Digit. I am happy to drop the honorific for you, because I don't think it's necessary. I am a 29 year old woman living in Massachusetts. I work a day job, though not one I would consider fulfilling, and I work on research, philosophy, and theoretical sexology and psychology. I also work as a game designer, and a lot of what I'm discussing here is actually being used for a legitimate video game. 

The game, as far as this blog need be concerned, isn't entirely important, (though you will see consistent links to my patreon, because that will support this as well). What's important here is explaining my thoughts, theories, and understanding of the extraordinarily large world of sexual "deviation". 

I can't go too deeply into the history of a fair amount of fetishes, but that's...kinda understandable.

So, let's talk about that word for a moment, shall we? Fetish It's so...taboo, while also being such an exciting feeling, isn't it? Like we're doing something wrong, but it's ok? Some of you are shaking your head at that, but for those who aren't, it's because they learned earlier that there is legitimately nothing wrong with enjoying something different. Every. Single. Solitary. Person. On. This. Planet. Does. It. Once more, with feeling It's ok!

Hell, people who think they don't have one, discuss theirs ALL THE TIME. You know you have that coworker who's a total ass man, don't you? Doesn't that sound a lot like he's sexually idolizing something? It's deemed strangely ok when it's already a sexual thing, doesn't it? High school boys do it all the time, if movies are to be believed.

So, how can I think about this stuff? Simply...this stuff god damned fascinates me. Do you know how unusual some fetishes are? Let's go with the easy little mainstream stuff, (these are very common fetishes), pee, poo, bondage, pain, violation, power. Those got more believable as they went. But you see it, right? How can someone sexualize some of this stuff? I need to know! And, I want to get an idea of where it came from, why they feel the way they do about it, and I want them to be able to read an in depth sexology article about why it's interesting, and how it's fun. 

For some things, that's a challenge. 

So, if you're reading this, I welcome comments. I welcome discussions. I welcome honest discourse, and I will happily keep everything discreet. Let's walk among the freaks and come out feeling better about it. And about ourselves. 

I'll get back tomorrow with the in depth discussion on why disabled cuties are amazing, but for now, I hope you can consider your fetishes with pride. 

Abasiophilia; Disability

Abasiophilia; Disability

You know that feeling when you head out for your first blind date with someone, and when they come, they have a disability affecting their mobility? They are stuck in a wheelchair, or on crutches? For some people, this is an active desire. Whether they want to be wheelchair bound, or love someone in one. 

And why not? People who have such a disability tend to garner more sympathy, at least to some, and there are those who want it to go further than simply helping out with some grocery shopping. Devotees, as they are often called, feel an arousal at the idea of helping out a disabled person, but sometimes in more ways than one. 

...I'm trying to stay super professional, but it's not working, so let's go with more erotic talk that still gets the point across. 

Let's assume you like women for a second. And you see a beautiful girl in a wheelchair, which just so happens to be something you enjoy. It's not just about the girl at this point, you gain a focal point on the fact that she can't walk. How your mind can interpret this is based in other fetishes, as well as other parts of the mind, but you do know you want her. 

Some facets of the theories behind this "paraphilia", (I'm just going to say fetish. I'm not a professional, but a researcher, and a laywoman at that), state that what you really want is her fetish. I don't think this is entirely the case. 

Personally, I think this fetish is about a desire to be support, and a desire to enjoy both the girl and the disability simultaneously. How? It depends on what's going on there. Is she paralyzed at all? Can she move her legs? Does she have legs to move? Is she missing one or both? How much? These questions all come into play, and a lot have to do with amputation, where some part of the body, (generally speaking, limbs, and in our case, legs). 

Now, I'm not going to go into a ton of detail about how hot a girl who has lost her legs is, because it's not exactly respectful of their situation, (just so you know, anyone out there who has lost a limb for any reason, you are beautiful, no matter what). What I'm going to go into detail about is what sex acts could be done, by whom, how, and then I'm going to go ahead and switch it up and do the male perspective, then I'm going to go into the deeper stuff, those who want to be disabled. This is looking like a multi-part episode, so I'm going to leave it here. There's your science. Well, part of it. This is just the surface. 

Tune in next time where we go over sex, the act of becoming disabled, and all the naughty things people fantasize about utilizing disability.

Later! <3

Princess Digit.

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Welcome to the dungeon

Welcome to the dungeon

Hello, I'm Princess Digit. This is my blog. I am here because sex is a hobby and becoming a career for me, and I wanted to be able to have a place where I can talk about it, discuss it, hopefully get some comments which make for an interesting conversation or debate, and to promote myself on a different media site, which is helpful. 

Now, one must question my motives, because that is what people do, and what they are hardwired to do. We are curious people. Now, as for my motives in learning sexology, it's because sex has always been a weird passion of mine. Not generally with vanilla sex, because that's actually fairly easy, and is generally a show of passion or procreation. Boring stuff. I want to get into the interesting stuff. I want to talk about fetishes, from the most mundane that everyone has without realizing it, to the most unusual that most people don't even realize is a thing. From Abasiophilia, to zoophilia, and back again, while building up a list, with definitions and a glossary, and links to my theories, whatever pictures are appropriate to post, etc.

This is going to be a blog that's about the fun and psychology of sex. Science, passion, and lust will be portrayed here, and I'm considering this post as fair warning to those who have stomachs too weak to discuss how anyone could enjoy this stuff. Because we all get to enjoy whatever we want, no matter how possible, impossible, dangerous, or just plain freaky.

Let's get started, shall we? 

Below is a list of all the sexual fetishes, listed, on wikipedia, (links kept intact).

Abasiophilia	People with impaired mobility[3]
Acrotomophilia	People with amputations[4][5]
Agalmatophilia	Statues, mannequins and immobility[6]
Algolagnia	Pain, particularly involving an erogenous zone; differs from masochism as there is a biologically different interpretation of the sensation rather than a subjective interpretation[7]
Andromimetophilia	Trans men[3][8]
Anililagnia	Attraction by young men to older women[9]
Anthropophagolagnia	Raping and then cannibalizing another person.[10]
Anthropophagy	Ingesting human flesh[10]
Apotemnophilia	Being an amputee[4][11]
Asphyxiophilia	Being asphyxiated or strangled[4]
Attraction to disability	People with one or more physical disabilities.[12]
Autagonistophilia	Being on stage or on camera[13][14]
Autassassinophilia	Being in life-threatening situations[4]
Auto-haemofetishism	Bleeding oneself (does not involve ingestion of blood). Type of autovampirism.[18]
Autoandrophilia	A biological female imagining herself as a male[15][16]
Autoerotic asphyxiation	Self-induced asphyxiation, sometimes to the point of near unconsciousness[14]
Autogynephilia	A biological male imagining himself as a female[17]
Autonepiophilia	The image of one's self in the form of an infant.[13]
Autopedophilia	The image of one's self in the form of a child.[19]
Autoplushophilia	The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[19]
Autovampirism	The image of one's self in the form of a vampire.[20] Involves ingesting or seeing one's own blood.[18]
Autozoophilia	The image of one's self in the form of an animal or anthropomorphized animal.[19]
Biastophilia	Raping a person.[4]
Chremastistophilia	Being robbed or held up[13]
Chronophilia	Partners of a widely differing chronological age[13]
Coprophilia	Feces; also known as scat, scatophilia or fecophilia[2][21]
Dacryphilia	Tears or crying[22]
Dendrophilia	Trees[4]
Diaper fetishism	Diapers; considerable overlap with paraphilic infantilism[23]
Emetophilia	Vomit[3]
Eproctophilia	Flatulence[24]
Erotic asphyxiation	Asphyxia of oneself or others[25]
Erotophonophilia	Murder, often of strangers (also known as dacnolagnomania).[10]
Exhibitionism	Exposing one's genitals to unsuspecting and nonconsenting others[2]
Feederism	Eating, feeding, and weight gain.[26]
Formicophilia	Being crawled on by insects[13][27]
Forniphilia	Turning a human being into a piece of furniture
Frotteurism	Rubbing against a non-consenting person[2]
Gerontophilia	Elderly people[28]
Gynandromorphophilia	Transsexual or transgender women[3][29]
Gynemimetophilia	Transsexual or transgender women[3][29]
Hematolagnia	Drinking or looking at blood[30]
Heterophilia	Idealization of heterosexuality and/or people who are "straight-acting," especially by non-heterosexual people.[31][32][33]
Homeovestism	Wearing clothing emblematic of one's own sex[34][35]
Hoplophilia	Firearms, guns [36]
Hybristophilia	Criminals, particularly for cruel or outrageous crimes[13][37]
Infantophilia	Pedophilia with a focus on children five years old or younger, a recently suggested term that is not in general use[38]
Kleptophilia	Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia[3]
Klismaphilia	Enemas, either giving or having[3]
Lactophilia	Breast milk[39]
Liquidophilia	Immersing genitals in liquids[39]
Macrophilia	Giants, giantesses.[39]
Maschalagnia	Armpits[40]
Masochism	Suffering; being beaten, bound or otherwise humiliated[2]
Mazophilia	Highly atypical sexual interest focused on female breasts.
Mechanophilia	Cars or other machines; also "mechaphilia."[41][42][43]
Melolagnia	Music[44]
Menophilia	Menstruation[39]
Metrophilia	Poetry[44]
Microphilia	Tiny beings.[citation needed]
Morphophilia	Particular body shapes or sizes[14]
Mucophilia	Mucus[39]
Mysophilia	Dirtiness, soiled or decaying things[3]
Narratophilia	Obscene words[3]
Nasophilia	Noses[39]
Necrophilia	Corpses[2][3][45]
Objectophilia	Specific inanimate objects[2]
Oculolinctus	Licking the eyeballs[46]
Oculophilia	Eyes and activities directly relating to and/or involving the eyes. Voyeurism does not meet classification for this term.
Olfactophilia	Smells[3][13]
Paraphilic infantilism	Dressing or being treated like a baby, also known as autonepiophilia[13] or "adult baby syndrome";[47]considerable overlap with diaper fetishism[23]
Partialism	Specific, non-genital body parts[2][3]
Pedophilia	Prepubescent children, also spelled paedophilia; often confused with hebephilia, ephebophilia, and pederasty[2][48]
Pedovestism	Dressing like a child[49]
Peodeiktophilia	Exposing one's penis[4]
Pictophilia	Pornography or erotic art, particularly pictures[3][13]
Piquerism	Piercing the flesh of another person, most commonly by stabbing or cutting the body with sharp objects[51]
Plushophilia	Stuffed toy animals (Plushies).[52]
Podophilia	Feet[50]
Pygophilia	Buttocks,[53] as in a highly atypical sexual interest focused on the buttocks.
Pyrophilia	Fire[54]
Raptophilia	Committing rape, possibly consensual rape fantasy[13]
Sadism	Inflicting pain on others[2]
Salirophilia	Soiling or dirtying others[3]
Schediaphilia	Cartoon characters or situations[40]
Sexual fetishism	Nonliving objects[2]
Somnophilia	Sleeping or unconscious people[3][13]
Sophophilia	Learning[55]
Sthenolagnia	Muscles and displays of strength[39]
Stigmatophilia	Body piercings and tattoos[4][39]
Symphorophilia	Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents[4]
Telephone scatologia	Obscene phone calls, particularly to strangers; also known as telephonicophilia[2][13] and scatophilia[56]
Teratophilia	Deformed or monstrous people[57]
Toucherism	Touching an unsuspecting, non-consenting person with the hand[58]
Toxophilia	Archery[44]
Transvestic fetishism	Wearing clothes associated with the opposite sex; also known as transvestism[2]
Transvestophilia	A transvestite sexual partner[13]
Trichophilia	Hair[39]
Troilism	Cuckoldism, watching one's partner have sex with someone else, possibly without the third party's knowledge[14][59]
Urolagnia	Urination, particularly in public, on others, and/or being urinated on. Also referred to as "water sports"[2][3][13][14]
Vampirism	Blood[60][61]
Vorarephilia	The idea of one person or creature eating or being eaten by another; usually swallowed whole, in one piece[62]
Voyeurism	Watching others while naked or having sex, generally without their knowledge; also known as scopophilia or scoptophilia[2][14]
Wet and messy fetishism	Messy situations, including, but not limited to, being pied, gunged or covered in mud
Zoophilia	Animals[2][3][13]
Zoosadism	Inflicting pain on or seeing animals in pain[63]

This list, in my opinion, is pathetically small. This doesn't encompass a lot of what is really out there. 

In the next post, we'll start discussing abasiophilia, which we see above is the fetishization of people with impaired mobility, such as a wheelchair or crutches. It'll be interesting.

This bottom piece will also be on every post, because I do need to eat as well. You can support me if you like what I'm doing, and want to see more, (by more I mean bigger and more in-depth, as far as the blog goes), by visiting my patreon. It only takes a few dollars a month to keep me going strong, and there's plenty in it for you, with games using sexology, stories, and the occasional dirty picture. 

...Seriously, that list is awful...